"Behavior in love shines through everything"

Well for once I can say I realize what a adult is and what being a human being is. Adults are made up of 3 parts: child, parent and adult. Everyone has all 3. Any one of the parts can be in control at any time. Most of us are letting our child run our life while our adult and parent are every limited only to our past.

So has anyone on this planet had a perfect parent or adult as a example in their life?

So how can your parent or adult inside you be any different than the examples that you had in your life. How can you know how an adult or parent thinks if your ever had a good example of either one.

Every time you have a choice to make you have either the adult, parent or CHILD that makes that choice. Most make a choice with the child. How can you make an adult choice if you never were shown how a adult makes choices. Only you are responsible for how you choose to make a choice. You can make the choice like an adult, parent or child.

I suggest you read "I'm Ok, You're Ok".by Thomas Harris.

It will let you see who is in control of yourself at any given time. You might just see why you keep ending up in the same place time after time.