"Behavior in love shines through everything"

I feel I should not judge people, I am not perfect, so I can not expect anyone else to be. When someone questions my actions and thoughts and makes a judgement of me it is hard not to return the favor. I would like to set some things straight but than I think why if they want to know me they will come to me and ask me.

I guess I should look at what they are saying and look at myself to see if there is anything I can change. If they criticize me, look at myself instead of judging them. I should always try to improve myself and let them be. It is not easy I am use to talking about others and my family instilled that in me with their values.

It is not their fault. Religion as a lot to do with it. My family see everything black and white no grey. Right and wrong, conservative like what is that. Damn why don't they think a little outside the box or computer or whatever they are in. Sorry I went off on my family thing.

Is there ever a time to judge? I feel there is not. Plus why waste my time on them and thinking about them when there are things I need to do to improve myself. The best thing I can do is be honest to them and me. If it is not good enough I am still me and you are still you.